If You Think for One Moment…?

If you think for one moment that you can do something, you are correct. In a recent article by Joshua Becker entitled “Focus on the Reasons You Can,” he does a great job of explaining the benefits of changing our thinking. As the saying goes, “Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you are correct.”

So often in life and in business, we remind ourselves to be “realistic.” As a result, we temper our expectations. We accept less than what we could have or achieve. Sometimes even well-meaning friends or relatives tell us not to take the risk… If you do a survey of people, you will find a very small percentage of people who can tell you what they want in life. However, 95% of them can tell you what they don’t want in life!

Joshua Becker suggests that “Almost everything worth accomplishing in life is difficult.” He goes on to tell the story about a conference that he attended years ago where the prolific writer, Anne Lamott, was asked the following:

“‘How do I find time to become the writer I want to be? I am a new mother, tired and ragged, and I just can’t find the energy to write during this phase of my life. Should I wait until it passes?’

Anne’s response was swift, pointed, and memorable.

She replied, ‘Listen, there is always going to be an available excuse as to why you can’t do your writing. You are newly-married, or you have a young child. Next, you will have more than one child, or you will be parenting teenagers, or beginning a new career, or traveling too often, or involved in this or that. There will always be a reason why you think you can’t do what you need to do. The pursuit is to overcome these obstacles in order to realize what you are called to accomplish.’

I’ve never forgotten Anne’s words of wisdom that day. In fact, it’s been ten years, and I still remember where I was sitting in the room.”

The point is that you can, indeed, reach that goal you have in mind. Get beyond the paralysis of pessimism. Instead of asking if you can do something, start to ask how you can achieve this objective. Write it down and give your mind an opportunity to start working toward its achievement. Your subconscious mind will push you forward in a positive direction, and as Joshua Becker points out: “… those who focus on the reasons they can, find hope and energy and perseverance.”

What goal or decision have you been putting off? If I can assist you with this, please let me know.

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